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There is destiny and there is duty. The emphasis today is on duty. We all have things that we'd rather postpone or avoid, but there are plenty of moments in life when we simply can't ignore what must be done. Give yourself a pep talk and get started.
There are far too many things to get done, so don't waste time on things that don't matter. If it's unimportant and not urgent, let it sit and simmer for a while.