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People often say that successful people are lucky because they were in the right place at the right time. There is some truth to this; there is always a moment in a successful person's life where they can honestly say that they got lucky and received a golden opportunity. However, successful people are always trying to put themselves in those situations by showing up and positioning themselves close to the action. By being there, they actually increase the likelihood of being in the right place at the right time. It's not a secret, it's just hard work and networking. If you're always in the wrong place at the wrong time, start showing up in the right places and, eventually, one of those moments will be the right time and your golden opportunity will arise.
It's a Google world, and potential employers now routinely search for information on job applicants online. If you have a strong presence online, make sure that you curate what you post and control the message you're putting out there about who you are.