You have more than you need and are happy to share your success.
You wouldn't take bread out of the oven before it's properly cooked and had time to rise. So why are you trying to force something to happen before it is ready? Give it time and set realistic expectations.
One of the best things you can do after listening to someone's explanation or answer is to pause. They're more likely to continue talking and you're more likely to hear what you really wanted to find out.