Your heart longs for romance. Do something nice for a special person.
We all judge books by their covers. It's inevitable and it's very human. What really matters is that you give the contents of the book a fair chance. You've judged someone by their cover recently, and now you're beginning to wonder if it was premature. Was it the right judgement? This is a good time to take a peek under the cover, turn a few pages, and see if there was any substance to your judgement.
Ask for what you want. It sounds so simple, but it's the easiest way to get what you actually want. People aren't mind readers. Ask.